I’m not flattered by anything that is said from a car window in passing.
Here’s an example of an interaction that I enjoyed:
i am walking
a man who is sitting goes “hey” in a calm and collected manner
and I go “hey”
(he is about 10 feet from me, acknowledges that I see him)
and goes “you know whats up!”
I don’t consider this situation cat calling. it wasn’t a show of power. it wasn’t trying to provoke me. It wasn’t untasteful or sexual to me. I didn’t feel threatened. He didn’t run away right after.
When you take that personal (and the essential low-energy) element out of it, it’s just a showing off.
that’s just my take on it.
My twitter is foie and my Instagram is ffoie. Yeah it’s fine just don’t make shirts out of my designs
Not at all. I want pics tho.